Trauma Expert Tim Fletcher | This Past Weekend w/ Theo Von #495
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Complex Trauma
- Complex trauma results from ongoing danger, abuse, or neglect, leading to dissociation and the creation of a fantasy world for safety.
- It affects self-identity, creating a negative self-image, shame, and an inner critic.
- Complex trauma begins in preverbal infancy and shapes the brain with negative messages and perceptions.
- Children with complex trauma develop maladaptive behaviors, such as people-pleasing, perfectionism, and workaholism, to cope with their trauma.
- It can lead to stress responses and overwhelm in adulthood, even in seemingly normal situations.
- Complex trauma occurs when a person is in constant danger, leading to burnout and depression.
- Healing from complex trauma requires self-awareness, connection with safe people, and reparenting to learn healthy patterns and behaviors.
Symptoms of Complex Trauma
- Lack of self-identity
- People-pleasing
- Anger issues
- Authority issues
- Control and manipulation issues
- Lying
- Fear of failure, change, and success
- Fear of rejection
- Desire for intimacy but fear of abandonment
Causes of Complex Trauma
- Ongoing danger, abuse, or neglect in childhood
- Emotional unavailability or neglect from parents or caregivers
- Childhood experiences such as abuse, neglect, or household dysfunction
Effects of Complex Trauma
- Negative self-image and shame
- Difficulty managing emotions
- Relationship problems
- Self-destructive behaviors
- Addiction
- Mental health issues, such as depression and anxiety
- Physical health problems, such as chronic pain and autoimmune disorders
Healing from Complex Trauma
- Self-awareness and understanding of the impact of trauma
- Connection with safe people and supportive relationships
- Reprogramming subconscious beliefs and healing shame
- Emotional regulation and coping skills
- Addressing underlying issues such as anger, grief, and loss
- Creating a safe and non-judgmental environment for healing
Childhood Trauma and Its Effects
- Childhood trauma can have lasting effects on a person's physical and mental health.
- The Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs) test measures the number of traumatic experiences a person has had in childhood.
- A higher ACE score is associated with an increased risk of developing health problems, mental health issues, and addiction in adulthood.
- Neglect is a significant form of childhood trauma that is often overlooked or not adequately addressed in discussions of ACEs.
- Positive influences and supportive relationships can help buffer the effects of trauma and promote resilience.
- It is important to address childhood trauma and its effects to prevent negative outcomes in adulthood.